Black Friday's Black Eye
Poor Jordyn. For Black Friday, a sacred day in this family, she got a black eye. While all of us women were out shopping, her brother threw a tantrum, tossed a bat and it landed in Jordyn's eye of all places! She's got quite a shiner, the poor thing (a reminder: this link takes you to my password protected web site...if you need the login and password, please email me at angela@cocajo.com).
However, other than that stroke of bad luck, the weekend was simply fabulous! Thanksgiving was awesome with all of our company, dinner tasted great (if I do say so myself, tee hee) and we all had a great time. We promptly started our shopping Thanksgiving evening at Meijer, since they were open and had some v e r y impressive sales going on. Then Friday morning, *THE* FRIDAY I look forward to all year long, I was ready to leave the house at 5 am. Yes, I was already up, showered, dressed, woke up some others, ate a bit, and ready to go at 5 am. My sister-in-law unfortunately had a bit of a problem getting her almost-2-year-old daughter back to sleep, so we were detained a bit. Regardless, at almost 6 am exactly, we hit our first store - and somehow landed almost the best parking spot in the very crowded parking lot. Walking in, I saw a friend of mine who is expecting her third child. It was great fun. It got better from there, as we hit, in order, Toys R Us, Wal-Mart, Kohl's, Bath & Body Works and Target.
Oh, the bags, the treasures, the great deals! Even my silly cold (which caused laryngitis - what bad timing for THAT!) couldn't dampen my mood. And despite the news reports that are shown, once again everyone we encountered were all in great moods. What a great time. I love looking in the carts while in line and seeing what other people are buying. Why? I'm not weird or anything. I just picture all the Christmas fun of wrapping the presents and the happy faces of the recipients when they open their gifts. I swear, if I ever strike it rich somehow, my friends and family will love it. There is nothing that brings me greater joy than buying presents for others. That's something I'm trying to instill in my kids...three at 5 and one at 14 months....yeah, that is interesting, but worth it.
And the Christmas decorations. Wow. By far my very bestest favorite time of year. Got that? I love the lights. I miss living so close to Sauganash (an affluent northern neighborhood) and being able to drive around admiring all the displays. However, I am happy that our neighborhood is so in to the holidays and they are decorating nicely once again. The weather has been so warm and Aaron was even out there putting up stuff that hasn't seen their way out of the box originally. The kids think it's magical and I agree. I have to say that so far, every year gets better for me. I have lost loved ones that I miss more and more with each year, but aside from that, I get to relive childhood through my kids' eyes (even the black & blue ones). I hope that I am making happy memories for them and they will come to remember these days. I know I will. After all, isn't that what life is all about?
Comments
Isn't it funny how when you are a child the things your parents do are so silly to you - like getting up at 5 in the morning to go shopping...but as we get older and start doing these same things we find out how much fun it is to plan these events with your friends and family and then repeat it year after year. And then we start bringing our children with us and the pattern just keeps repeating. And pretty soon we look up and see we are just like our mother - that same person we thought was crazy for doing all these ridiculous things. And we realize what a great person she is and the sacrafices she made just to make us happy.A lot of times we just don't see that until she is no longer with us and then we realize just how much we miss that special person. So anyone who still has their mother tell her how important she is and how much you love her because noone knows what tomorrow will bring and sometimes tomorrow is too late. Thank you Angela for being such a special daughter to me and by letting me know how important to you I am!! I love all of you very much!!! Oh and guess what! You are becoming your mother!!
Posted by: Mom | November 27, 2006 08:43 PM
Amen, mom. If I become just like you, I would be PROUD!
Posted by: Angela | November 27, 2006 10:04 PM
How many Kleenex did it take you to write that touching thought Barb?
Posted by: Aaron | November 27, 2006 10:14 PM
Not a fan of lights. That's mainly because I consider crawling around on a slippery roof a death-defying act worthy of a Flying Wallenda.
But there is also the whole problem with lights up before Thanksgiving. When I'm driving home in a borderline triptofan coma, I don't want to see the Virgin Mary cradling the baby Jesus in 1800 watt neon light.
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to run out and find a giant inflatable Grinch so I can put it in my yard.
Posted by: Khyle | November 28, 2006 09:24 AM
'Twas the night before shopping
At Angela's place
The kid's were still playing
With food on their face.
Aaron was trying
to get them ready for bed
Caden got mad
and hit Jordyn in the head.
Connor was reading
Haley a book
Angela was tired and said "Hey guys, LOOK!"
"Tomorrow is shopping
I get up at four
If I don't get some sleep
I'll fall on the floor.
So Please go to bed
I'll tuck you in tight
Take your blankies and pillows
And I'll kiss you good night!"
Then just as she settled into her bed
The alarm clock went off and buzzed in her head!
So off to the stores she started to run
To Target, to Wal-mart
To have her some fun.
To Toys R Us and to Kohl's
And all in between
Spending Aaron's money and buying everything.
Now the day is finally over
And she's ready to drop
But already planning the next Black Friday
That great day to SHOP!!!
Hope you like my little humor!!
Posted by: Mom | November 28, 2006 10:02 PM
Angela! Love the poem! It fits "yall" perfectly. Your home is very Christmassy and looks so beautiful! You all have a beautiful family and I am so blessed to have a wonderful cousin. Your mom is just like a sister to me. I feel so blessed to be part of a wonderful family! Merry Christmas to the whole entire Wald family! Love you guys!
Posted by: Lisa Stacey | December 4, 2006 11:24 AM